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To leave
behind an honorable legacy for your children is
something for which all parents should strive to do.
Such was the case with Paul
Gilbert and Effie Nancy Morrison Brewer, our
parents.
They both were outstanding educators who were
dedicated to their jobs as well as to their family
and community.
Daddy, the
sixth child of Houston and Rosa Butler Brewer, was
born August 12, 1921 in
Pageland, Chesterfield
County, South Carolina. He
attended
Brewer
Chapel
School, which was one of the Rosenwald schools.
(Presently located on the
Arthur Brewer estate.)
These particular schools were primarily for
the education of African Americans during the early
20th century.
Daddy was privileged to have been taught by
his older cousin, Dora B. Nance, known to us as
“Cousin Sis”.
He attended high school at Colter
Academy
in
Cheraw,
SC
, but dropped out to serve in the army during WW II.
During his service in the army, he was a
member of the “Red Ball Express”, which was a
supplier for Gen. Patton’s troops.
He had gradually worked his way up to a
sergeant in the army. After getting into a
serious fight, however, he was quickly demoted back to a
private. (Those
Brewer men sure let their tempers get the best of
them.)
Upon
returning home from the war, Daddy was issued a high
school diploma by the principal at the time, who
happened to have been married to his Cousin Sis.
He, in turn, took advantage of the G.I. Bill
and decided to attend S.C. State College in
Orangeburg,
SC.
That is
where he would meet his future wife, our mother,
Effie Nancy Morrison.
Mama, the oldest child of Palmer and Fannie
Young Morrison, was born November 27, 1927 in
Society Hill, Darlington County,
SC.
She and
her younger brother and sister had been raised on a
farm and attended elementary school out in the
country. She
entered Butler High in Hartsville, but graduated
from
Haynes
Academy
in
Augusta,
GA
after her mama and daddy divorced.
It was at
Butler
High School
that she had been a classmate of Benjamin Boykin,
who would several years late become known to us as
“Cousin Ben.”
Mama and Benjamin reunited as friends after
they both entered South Carolina State College.
It just so happened that Daddy and
Benjamin had become friends in college since
they both were WW II veterans.
Consequently, Benjamin introduced Daddy to
our mom, and in turn, Daddy introduced Benjamin to
his Cousin Thomasina.
Daddy ended up
proposing to Mama on the steps of White Hall at
South Carolina State, a building which has long since been
demolished. Of
course, she said yes. Mama had already finished
college by that time
and was working as a secretary at
Claflin
University. They
were married in 1949 at
Trinity
United
Methodist
Church
right across from the campuses of South Carolina State and
Claflin. In the meantime, Benjamin had proposed to
Cousin Tom, and they too were married.
After
graduating from college, Daddy moved Mama to Pageland
where they lived in the old family estate on what is
now
Brewer Road. Daddy
had gotten a job at
Petersburg
High School
as an agriculture teacher, and Mama became a
librarian and teacher at
Shannon
Elementary School
in
Jefferson
. From
their union, they had the three of us, Paul Gilbert
Jr. (“Chuck,”) who was born August 16, 1951; Gerald
Casey, “BaeBae,” born July 20, 1953; and Vanessa
Faye, whom Daddy always called “Pook,” born
February 13, 1956.
Our family moved into the old Gathings’
place behind Charlie Mills’ grocery store while
our new home was being built.
(Our parents were the first Black family in
Pageland to build a brick home.)
We moved into our new home when Vanessa was
about two years old.
All three of us started elementary school at
Shannon with our mom, but we eventually ended up
going to Petersburg
School
where our dad was teaching.
Sadly,
Chuck’s junior year would be the last year for
Petersburg
High School. This
was the time of desegregation of the schools in our
county. The
high school students (ninth through 12 graders)
would now be attending
Pageland
High School. Chuck
graduated from Pageland High in May, 1969, and of
course, chose to study at
South Carolina
State. He
graduated from college in May, 1973 and was
commissioned as a Second Lieutenant in the U.S.
Army. Since
Daddy had just passed in April of that same year,
Cousin Arthur pinned the bars on Chuck during the
ceremony. Daddy
and Mama, who had passed in September of 1972, would
have been so proud of him. Our Aunt Annie and a few more family members
were there for the heartfelt occasion.
Meanwhile, Bae
Bae had graduated from high school in 1971.
He later graduated from King’s College in Charlotte,
North Carolina
with an Associate's degree in Business.
He was very instrumental in helping with the
finances at Wesley
Chapel
United
Methodist
Church, as well as helping Daddy transact business after
our mother passed.
Bae Bae served in the army for a short while
and eventually moved to
New York
where he got a job at Macy’s Department Store
where his Cousin Booker T. Brewer worked.
(Bae Bae had told them that he was Cousin
Booker T.’s nephew.
This was probably what got his foot in the
door.) He
worked in the shipping department there for years
and was well liked and respected by his co-workers.
He was faithful to the job until he became
too ill to work.
Our beloved brother passed in September,
1991.
Upon graduating
from
Pageland
High School
in 1973, Vanessa was destined to enter
South Carolina
State
. One
day, before school was to start, her big brother Chuck
marched her right up to the president of the
college’s office.
He told Dr. Maceo
Nance who was president at that time, that his sister needed financial
aid; she needed it almost immediately.
Dr. Nance responded by saying that he needed
to look at Vanessa’s SAT scores first.
Needless to say, after checking the
information in her application folder, he responded
by saying that it wouldn’t be a problem.
(Chuck had also reminded him that he and our
mother had been classmates in college.)
It was also
the year that Chuck married Bernetta Graham, whom
he had met at State. In July, 1974, they had a
beautiful baby girl, Nancy Renee.
However, the marriage failed.
Chuck met Annette Payne while stationed at
Ft.
Gordon, Georgia
, and they were married May of 1977, the day right
before Vanessa graduated from South Carolina State
University.
Their first son, Paul III, “Chuckie,” was
born in January of 1978 in Augusta, and their second son, Nicholas,
was born the next year in March in
Charleston,
South Carolina while their dad was in
Korea. Three
years later in March, 1982, a third son, Derek, was
born in
Fayetteville, North
Carolina.
After
graduating from college, Vanessa accepted the
challenge of the owner and editor of a weekly
newspaper in
Columbia
to work for his newspaper.
He had spoken to her journalism class on one
occasion and had urged those who were interested to
come and meet with him after graduation.
Well, Vanessa and a friend wasted no
time applying for a job there and were both hired
the first week after graduation.
Shortly afterwards, the newspaper's owner
decided to open up a weekly paper in Orangeburg, and
he sent the two of them to run it.
Running a newspaper proved to be exciting as
well as exhausting.
Vanessa’s friend decided it was too much
and enrolled in graduate school.
Knowing she couldn’t do it alone, Vanessa
accepted a position at The
Times & Democrat Newspaper, a daily paper in
Orangeburg.
It
was doing this time that she had an adorable baby
girl, Kimberly Gerrae Haynes, born in April, 1979.
In that same year, her Aunt Barbara of East Orange, New Jersey
gave her an invitation to come live with her and her
two children. Vanessa
decided to venture out, and relocated with her
daughter to
New Jersey. In a
short time, she was hired at Burrell’s Press
Clipping Service and quickly moved up the ladder from a news monitor and secretary to a sales
representative.
Fortunately for
her now, Vanessa could never develop a love for the
city. Even
though she once said she would never come back there
to live, she moved back into her parents’ home in the small
town of
Pageland. She
began substitute teaching at the local schools. Ironically,
teaching was the one thing that she did not want to
do, but it was in her blood.
After obtaining her certification in
elementary education, Vanessa began working at Ruby
Elementary and has taught there for more than
25 years.
She
met David Tyson after they both had given their
hearts to the Lord Jesus Christ and were doing
missionary work together.
They were married February, 1988 and had a
prized son, Christian David, born October, 1988.
Rev. David and Vanessa have been pastors at a
church founded by them in
Monroe,
North Carolina
for over 20 years.
David is also self-employed with a transport
and landscaping business. Vanessa went on to receive a
master's degree in
Elementary Education from the
University
of
South Carolina
in
Columbia.
In 2002, she
was honored as Teacher
of the Year at her school.
Chuck finally
retired from the army as a colonel.
After much compromise on his wife’s part,
they moved to Pageland and built a home on what used
to be known as the
Stanley Place. He
began teaching Social Studies in
Union County, North
Carolina
where he worked for five years. He is now a history teacher at
Central
High School
in Pageland.
Chuck
enjoys working in the home church and sharing his
farm products with neighbors.
Annette worked for a year at Jefferson
Elementary, which used to be Shannon Elementary
where Mama once taught.
(It’s amazing how the Lord navigates
things.) Annette
decided to resign from teaching to enter the divinity
school at
Duke
University
in
Durham, North
Carolina. There
she earned two master's degrees.
She is now a Presbyterian pastor and has
since taught school at Pageland Elementary.
She is presently working on her Doctor of
Ministry through Gordon Conwell Theology Seminary.
Chuck’s
daughter, Renee, received a law degree from
Tulane
University
in New Orleans,
Louisiana.
She has
also served in the army and was deployed to
Iraq
twice. She
now works for the IRS in
Austin,
Texas. Chuckie
and his wife, Renessa Ciampa Brewer, live in
Boston, Massachusetts. Renessa is a graphic artist.
Chuckie received his undergraduate degree
from
Boston
University
and is presently working on a master's degree in Seminary at
Boston
College. Nicholas
attended Berkeley College of Music in Boston
. He now
lives in
Columbia, South
Carolina
and is an exceptionally talented musician who has
recorded a CD and does various band tours.
Derek graduated from the
University
of
South Carolina
with a degree in Sociology. He is now working in
Boston
as a data base manager.
Kimberly,
Vanessa’s daughter, graduated from South Carolina State
University in December, 2001 with a B.S. in Elementary
Education. After earning a
master's degree from
Indiana
University, she taught school for one year in
Charlotte, North
Carolina. She
now teaches in Clayton County, Georgia and has gone on to
earn a specialist degree from
Georgia
State. She has also been recommended for a doctoral
program. In
addition, she
has been honored as Teacher of the Year at her school and was a finalist in the county.
Her husband, Justin Seabrook Sampson,
graduated from State and earned a master's degree from
Perdue
University
in Indiana. He is
a structural engineer with a firm in
Atlanta. Kimberly
is also an aspiring writer, walking in her
mother’s footsteps.
Her husband is a gifted artist. They have two wonderful children, Justin Jr.,
5, and Emory, 2.
Christian graduated from Central High in 2006.
He attended
Winthrop
University
in
Rock Hill, South
Carolina.
Christian
loved the college social life, but did not care too
much for the academic part.
So he left to pursue a career on his own in
the business world. (He is very enterprising, like his dad.)
He now owns his own transport truck, has a
job, and is paying his own bills. (Yes!)
Christian is also a gifted musician, playing
multiple musical instruments.
We had our Grandpa Palmer Morrison to thank
for all the musical talents that were passed down to
the third generation of our males.
We are truly
thankful to God for all that He has blessed our
family. May
all our gifts, talents, successes, and even our
failures, somehow be used to bring glory to His
name. And
hopefully, an honorable legacy will pass on to our
grandchildren, their children, and to the future
generations.
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